Today I had 2 hours to myself very close to a restaurant with wifi! So I am really enjoying being a blogger today!
We are coming to an end of this party series. The other night, I was interviewed about my party planning, and the questions I was asked gave me some ideas about quick tips and short topics that I haven’t covered yet, so this post is going to be a quick wrap up covering some final miscellaneous topics. Please feel free to post in the comments below if you feel like I have skipped over a subject matter that interests you.
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How far in advance do you start planning a party?
Obviously, you can never start too early, but I think the ideal time-frame for fairly stress-free party-planning is a month. This gives you time to come up with the theme, decide on the details, and get items ordered if needed.
What kind of games and how many do you need?
The answer to this question, can depend on the age of your children. The younger the children, the shorter the attention span, and the more organization is needed to avoid chaos. With preschool/early elementary, I try to plan 3-4 activities that last 10-15 minutes each. They should be SIMPLE, with instructions that are easy to follow and enforce. For this reason, many times, I simply choose games they already know how to play (musical chairs, hot potato) and just add a themed element to it. Or I choose a “basically no rules” game, like take turns showing us your ninja moves on the trampoline.
I also have one activity that is “quiet.” It can be a craft or as simple as coloring pages spread out on a table (of course, the pages are theme-related!)
With older elementary kids, you might be able to get away with one game that has a variation of rounds–flag football with a “capture the flag” variation round. Nerf wars with different scenarios and goals (target practice, evasive tactics and then all-out war!)
FYI, Pinterest can be your best friend in finding theme-related games.
Are party favors a must?
I don’t think they are. I usually give one out, but it is NOT going to be my high-expense budget line item. My party favors consist of either 1. something I used during the party for the decor or a game (at the Nerf party, the boys got to keep their team bandana and eye protection along with theme-colored gum and tic-tacs), or 2. $1 or less/child. For example, one year we did a Ninja theme. I found giant (2-inch) ninja star gummy candies. I printed a “thank you” label, stapled it to the individually wrapped ninja star, and that was my party favor that year. I think it came out to 25 cents/child. And no, I did not take a picture of that particular party favor–another photographer fail!
To DIY or not to DIY? That is the question!
Should you make your cake or buy it? Do you order everything or try to make it yourself?
There are so many factors that go into this decision, that I can say with all honesty that there is no wrong answer! Factors to consider include, but are not limited to:
-SAHM with more time than money or working mom with more money than time?
-Priorities: is this something that helps you bond with your child or something that keeps you from spending time with him?
-Do you ENJOY it, or do you get stressed just thinking about it?
-No matter your skill level, you CAN DIY. Just remember, you need to learn your limitations and tailor your DIY accordingly. For example, I can wield, a mean glue bottle, but I cannot sew, so I don’t even attempt any DIY that involves a needle and thread. On the other hand, after several years of attempting to make cakes, and knowing that this was something I wanted to keep doing, I went ahead and took a beginners cake-decorating course and learned SO MUCH. My stress-level went down and my enjoyment (and skill) level went up. I have learned to look at a cake idea, and tweak it down to my skill level.
How do you make sure you aren’t forgetting a key element to your party?
Get a party template going and follow it for every party you plan. This blog is long enough, but if you would like to see mine, make sure you are subscribed to my blog and then comment below that you would like to see it, and I can email it to you.
In the future, I will try to post about once a month on planning a party for a SPECIFIC theme. Please post in the comments below if there is a theme you would like me to post a blog about to help you in your planning!
My next blog post will be about teaching our children the life skill of WAITING! So stay tuned!